为什么要找生活夥伴? 与 为什么单身?

看到一个”红娘”的网站, 觉得蛮多资寻的..哈哈..就来一个分析和认识自己为什么自己还是单身的.

为什么要找生活夥伴?

网上的理由：

• 父母亲的期望( 赞成,但是我都不管…哈哈)
• 朋友都成家和有生活夥( 又管我什么事? 还是会有很多朋友是单身可以一起去玩呀）
• 在特别的节日会孤獨 （赞成，但是孤獨不一定寂寞 －人生除了伴侣，还有朋友呀！！友谊万岁）
• 安定下来（成家与生儿育女）－不赞成 ：Ｐ
• 有个生活伴侣来分享＆分担（快乐，成功，心情的点滴) － 这我也同意！！

自己觉得的理由：

• 有个旅行伴侣 （特别的是浪漫之旅 ：Ｐ ，有些地方是跟特别的人去才有意思的）
• 生理上的需求 （当然前提是要有爱 ：Ｐ）
• 让自己更加认识自己

为什么单身的理由:(自己看以下英文版的)

网上的理由：

• 工作繁忙-我都不是很忙,有可能是我还想往外发展把?
• 工作和社交的环境比较少对象? ( 很多但还没遇到)
• 遇到不对的人
• 遇到好的人,心里会想好的早就名花有主了!! 哈哈
• 刚分手

我的理由:

• 还没遇到她(怎要知道是她? 哈哈)
• 需要长时间的认识后才能肯定是她,那时候以名花有主..哈哈
• 想收多一点钱,让”我们”的讲来可以享受一点.
• 有点宅,所以没什么兴趣出去
• 还不能定下来,还想往外国去工作.

Busy Work Schedule.

-Always outstation, overseas or busy clocking overtime.
-Extremely career-minded with little time for anything else.

Environment (work or social).

-No potential or right match amongst their work and social network (colleagues, customer, suppliers or friends).
-Do not wish to have personal relationship with work related person.
-Narrow social circle and therefore there is little chance to meet new people.

Unsuccessful attempts with others methods or others channel.

-Social activities like joining fitness centre, gym, dancing class, clubbing, church activities, friends gathering with no positive results.

-Meeting through friends introduced
Everyone has limited supply of friends to introduce to you, your friends might not know your personal details and your requirements, and may introduce incompatible people to you. If you don’t get along with your fix-up, your friend may take it personally. If running into your ex-date at parties thrown by your mutual friend would make you uncomfortable.

-Singles Events / Speed Dating / Online Dating Services
Attendants vary in age and background and relationships goals. Attendees’ backgrounds are not screened and you might even meet not serious, married or attached singles.

They find out the people they are meeting or dating now is not compatible.

-Wasting time on a particular person who is not interested (and finding out the hard truth after investing time and effort).
-For some women, their choices are limited as it depends on the men who date them that might not compatible

They are too good candidate so people will think that they must be attached.

Break-off

Age getting up and having social pressure

1. Parental expectations
2. Friends mostly married or attached
3. Uncomfortable when attending company family day function or any function

Loneliness on festive season such as Valentine, New Year, Christmas or own birthday.

Have a need to settle down, want to have children, build up own family.

Need someone to care, a companion, someone to share their life with.

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